Oooh weee, my first blogged rant

Now let me start of with this: i KNOW that i have a tendency to over-react and curse/beat the shit out of people in the blink of an eye. So, if I'm wrong please let me know.

So we're planning this vacation right? It was supposed to be 3 people, including myself. One person flaked out at that the last minute. Not even telling us that they were flaking mind you. They had to be texted like "dude, where are you?" to which they responded that they wouldn't be able to make it. Ok, made the plans without them, life goes on. That particular flake has since then ignored text messages, phone calls, and fb messages. Again, life goes on. I understand that you may be going through some personal things that a)you don't want to talk about and b) you're not ready to take a vacation right now.

Again, I want to stress that nobody is holding that against you. But heres where the shit comes in. All of a sudden today, said flake speaks to the other person going on this trip and starts asking questions, saying that they wanna go. DA PHUCK?! Bitch, you ignored us for 2 wks. If whatever you were going through was so terrible you shouldn't have been all over FB and blatantly ignoring us. What's more, if it was that dramatic, how'd you get over it so quick? And, if you felt that we all weren't close enough for you to come to and confide to us, then thats fine. But why the fuck do you want to go on an international trip with people that you don't even like?!?!

So, I spoke to my mother about it earlier today. And she told me that I was over-reacting, and that part of being a good friend is to forgive people. But that maybe I should talk to 'The Flake' myself to clear the air. Ok, I grudgingly accepted her advice... 'The Flake" was gonna go home, and try to book the same flights/cruise as us, to see if she could get the same deal. All's well that ends well, right??

So, the other girl texts 'The Flake"... No response. Hmm, ok. She emails the girl... Still no response. She's online, she's on facebook. So she's purposely ignoring us. Am I wrong to want to slap the shit out of this chick??

Part of me trying to be mature is thinking about what I wanna say, rather than rolling up to her apt right now. Even this blog! The old me would have shouted her out by name AND linked her facbeook page. But I'm not doing that. And again, I ask for your advice... How should i handle this?